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friend with benefits

(idiomatic, slang, euphemism) A friend with whom one has a casual sexual relationship.

ˈfɹɛnd ˈwɪð ˈbɛnəfɪtsDocumented since 1990s1990sMillennialhistoricalCurrent31 viewsLast reviewed Jun 29, 2026+ Add a definition
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Born ~1995 · 1 year of recorded use
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#1·Apr 27, 2026

(idiomatic, slang, euphemism) A friend with whom one has a casual sexual relationship.

Origin: Possibly first used by Alanis Morissette for her 1995 song “Head over Feet”, although in the original context it seems to refer to a committed rather than a casual relationship. Origin information sourced from Wiktionary contributors (CC BY-SA 4.0).
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  • [[CW - usage of F-slur]] A bi-curious doberman met up with an otter boy to experiment with his sexuality. Luckily, his awkwardness seems to have won over his new friend with benefits~ Art: furaffinity.net/user/ventkazemaru/ SFX: @opennsfwsp.bsky.social Voices: LunarLegacyVA

    Bluesky· May 2026
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